Word Confusion: Who 'Dat??

That and who are both subject and/or object pronouns. Who is used only when referring to people (yeah, I think animals are people, too) while that can be used for people, things, and animals.

I have a strong personal preference toward using who in any situation that involves people or animals while reserving that for things—or people or animals for whom I have no respect.

It’s a personal choice between being respectful (in my opinion) and being easy.

Refers to People
Part of Grammar: Relative pronouns introduce relative adjectival clauses.
Who	Subject or object pronoun for people	I told you about the woman who lives next door.
Whose	Possessive for people, animals, and things	Do you know the boy whose mother is a nurse?
Whom	Object pronoun for people Colloquially, who is generally used	I was invited by the professor whom I met at the conference.
Refers to Things
That	Subject or object pronoun for people, animals, and things in defining relative clauses which could also use who or which	I don’t like the table that stands in the kitchen. Technically, you can also say: I told you about the woman that lives next door.
Which	Subject or object pronoun for animals and things. It can also refer to a whole sentence.	Do you see the cat which is lying on the roof? He couldn’t read which surprised me.

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C’mon, get it out of your system, bitch, whine, moan…which words are your pet peeves?

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